Brandan De Nuccio feels Mary Rosa is too controlling on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. Fans aren’t happy about how she’s treating him. They think he should ditch her. But will she be able to change?
90 Day Fiance: Brandan De Nuccio Sees Mary Rosa’s Jealous Side
Brandan De Nuccio left his life in America for a new beginning with Mary Rosa in the Philippines. He had sent her thousands of dollars to build them a house to live in. And, after two and a half years of spending every second on video chat, it was time to meet in person.
LET ME MAKE THIS REAL SIMPLE. IF YOUR PARTNER TREATS YOU THE WAY #BRANDAN IS BEING TREATED BY MARY, LEAVE! IT’LL NEVER GET BETTER. THIS IS TOXIC. ABUSIVE. MANIPULATION. IMAGINE IF A MAN DID THIS TO A WOMAN! IT’S NOT OK. #90dayfiance #90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/JOPwmUkev6
— Diary Of An OTD Girl (@DiaryOtdGirl) August 22, 2023
The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way cast member knew his girlfriend was jealous. However, he didn’t know how bad it was until it was time to board a flight. She got upset when she found out he was sitting next to a girl. She even told him not to come anymore.
However, Brandan was able to change his seat to make Mary happy. And the two were finally face to face. They even shared a kiss without getting permission from her grandparents. But that was only the beginning of her jealousy and controlling behavior.
Brandan Finds Mary Controlling
Mary tells Brandan that it is important to her that he goes to church with her. He admits to not being religious. But agrees to go for her. However, she tells him that he can’t look at any of the girls. And, if he isn’t looking at the priest, his eyes should be on her.


The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way castmate feels that there’s already a lot of pressure to adopt someone’s religion, and on top of that, he’s being told he can’t look at girls. He thinks it’s “a bit much.” He explains that she doesn’t like it if he even turns his head.
Brandan doesn’t think anyone should be “physically controlled” and told where they can look and who they can speak to. The TLC star doesn’t feel anyone should live like that. He feels like he “can’t win.” He says, “It can’t be like this forever.” But will he be able to get Mary to trust him and stop being controlling?
Fans Think 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Celeb Should Run
Brandan De Nuccio’s relationship with Mary Rosa doesn’t sit well with fans. One person says, “It breaks my heart” seeing her treatment towards him. Another person thinks he has the “patience of a saint.” A person also finds it “hard to watch him keep putting up with her.” They think he should ditch her and run.
Many 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way viewers don’t like how Mary is treating Brandan. One person thinks she is “acting like a jealous teenager rather than a 23-year-old.” Another person says she is a “special blend of controlling and insecure.” A person even calls her behavior “toxic.” But will she be able to trust him and let go of her controlling ways?
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